Please excuse me if I'm doing any of this wrong, today is my first day on here and I'm just looking to talk. I want to have this figured out before tomorrow afternoon so if and when I need to vent I know how to do it. I am the step mother of two beautiful children whose bio-mom is an unhealthy, incredibly jealous, irrational, mouth frothing lunatic. Due to her extremely long itinerary of plans she had made with the kids on the time they were supposed to be with their father we have not had much one on one with the kids in the last two weeks. At the time we had discussed even allowing their mother to change the schedule we just decided it was easier than arguing with her since she never stops harrassing us. Now as a result we will be having the kids for 14 DAYS STRAIGHT. This would in any normal situation be wonderful however I am guiltily dreading it because we are far from anythig that could be classified a "NORMAL" situation.
When the kids spend even one weekend at their mothers house they come back EVERYtime exhausted, rude, obnoxious little monsters. Usually for at least the first 24 hours reunited with the kids its a pretty rough period of time outs, homework, arguments, the infamous "my Mom let's me do this", "my mom doesn't make us eat vegetables" and "my mom said (insert personal inappropriate insult here)." etc. etc. It never ends especially since I can't respond back with the many many insults that fit this woman so well. However; I am sure I will have many opportunities to go into extreme detail about the kids, their father, their mental patient I mean.. mother!, and the large laundry list of discussions I may need to have with someone not personally connected to our situation in any way shape or form.
Good Morning everyone! I hope you are all having a wonderful day and I look forward to conversating with you all. I would like to in advance thank you all for being here so we don't have to feel alone in our insanity we love so much... our children! Please at anytime feel free to write me and ask questions. I look forward to the support!