Is it terrible that part of me almost wishes he wouldn't visit?
my husband is a wonderful man and a great dad...he is also a military dad. right now he is gone trianing for a new job within the military. He has been gone since april and will be gone until next june... he has visited twice once last month and then this weekend. we miss him when he's gone terribly and we are trilled when he comes to visit but it is so hard to say goodbye again when he has to go.I can handle it but it hurts the kids so much...I hate to see them missing their daddy so much.part of me thinks it would be easier if he didn't visit at all...but that is just terrible I know.sorry hope this actually makes sense.