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is it my responsibility?

Posted by on Jul. 18, 2013 at 4:04 PM
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June 16th baby daddy and I had an altercation. Since then he has not contacted me about parenting time and I have not contacted him. Due to no communication he has had no parenting time. Times, days, and drop off location are not in court order. Is it my responsibility to contact him about parenting time or is it his?
by on Jul. 18, 2013 at 4:04 PM
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Yuriko_chan
by on Jul. 18, 2013 at 4:20 PM

BUMP

sahmw2010
by on Jul. 18, 2013 at 4:27 PM
I say no. My ex was like that and im sorry, im not going to hold his hand and make him see dd, and u shouldnt either. Though to cover ur butt, i would go get something from the court that atleast states u have physical and legal custody (if u dont have one already)
BoxxyBabee
by on Jul. 18, 2013 at 4:31 PM
Yeah I have custody. I use to drop ds off at his house until he assaulted me. Lawyer told me to exchange ds off at police station but bd hasnt even tried to see him lol


Quoting sahmw2010:

I say no. My ex was like that and im sorry, im not going to hold his hand and make him see dd, and u shouldnt either. Though to cover ur butt, i would go get something from the court that atleast states u have physical and legal custody (if u dont have one already)

godsgirl26
by ♥Char2theMaine♥ on Jul. 18, 2013 at 4:34 PM
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Idk. Please don't say *baby daddy* that sounds real ghetto.
BoxxyBabee
by on Jul. 18, 2013 at 4:36 PM
My Baby daddy is ghetto.


Quoting godsgirl26:

Idk. Please don't say *baby daddy* that sounds real ghetto.

frndlyfn
by Emerald Member on Jul. 18, 2013 at 4:36 PM

I personally would not remind him of anything given his past. I would use those days to do fun things with the children if they notice something that is not happening.

Lovemyshadows
by on Jul. 18, 2013 at 7:02 PM


Quoting godsgirl26:

Idk. Please don't say *baby daddy* that sounds real ghetto.

Yes it does.

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Lovemyshadows
by on Jul. 18, 2013 at 7:04 PM
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Quoting BoxxyBabee:

My Baby daddy is ghetto.


Quoting godsgirl26:

Idk. Please don't say *baby daddy* that sounds real ghetto.

Just because he is ghetto, doesn't mean you have to be.

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terpmama
by Gold Member on Jul. 18, 2013 at 7:17 PM
I would send one text/email that states he is welcome to contact you about parenting time. That way if he takes you to court you can have proof that you tried and he didn't respond. I would keep all communication written, and all meetings with witnesses.
RADmomma
by on Jul. 18, 2013 at 7:27 PM
I wouldn't. He's a big boy. If he wants contact... He'll contact you!
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