Well I went online and looked up the school supply list for her school and grade. I picked a couple of the more expensive items to buy from the list. The binder, back pack and calculator. I have also been buying his daughter school clothes.
Well when we dropped her off at her mom'sshe told dh they aren't allowed to have binders. I know for a fact they can because I printed out the supply list from the school. She also said they don't use calculators.
The binder was $13 and the calculator was $20 (was a speciality one that they said she'd need). Dh thinks since it still had the tag on it that she is going to try and return it and get the money for it. Same thing with the clothes. I know I shouldn't have sent the clothes with her but we aren't doing overnights. I could have not bought her clothes but she needed them and dh was tired of her mom making snide comments about that kind of thing. Even though dh feels that's what he pays child support for. He thinks she should use her child support to buy school clothes, shoes, supplies, ect. What do you all think?