My name is Donna. I have posted on here regarding the same situation. A good friend and myself (or should say a former friend) matched up my 22 year old son with her 22 year old daughter. At first it was just fun just talking about them getting together. Low and behold they have been dating now for at least 6 months. Now the former friend no longer speaks to me. My son goes to visit her daughter (my sons girlfriend at college). We also have younger sons the same age. I asked her to go to breakfast one morning and there was no reply. I knew something was wrong because she always replies. I asked her to call me. She said I should know what was wrong. I told my former friend that I was not a "mind reader." She proceeded to tell me that I was keeping things from her. I asked her husband to help me out with my younger son because their younger son and my younger son were involved in the same activities for the week. I told him that my husband and middle son were out of town. (This son is the one that dates her daughter). She told me when I asked her husband for help that when I mentioned that my son was out of town that I should have told her that my son was visiting her daughter. I was baffled as to why she said this to me. We also traveled out of town to my nieces engagement party. She told me that I should have told her that her daughter was traveling with us. My son is 22 and her daughter is 20. I was not keeping anything from her and she insisted that I was. I was dumbfounded by the whole situation. I realized that it was her daughters place to tell her mom. I texted her again yesterday. It had been about a month since that first conversation. I asked her if we could discuss this situation again? No response. This still has me dumbfounded. Please respond! Help!!!
on Jul. 30, 2013 at 11:44 AM