My husband and I are 100% sure we don't want anymore kids. I'm 26 and he will be 27. We have one son who is 3 and a daughter that will be here in August. I've gone back and forth with the idea of getting my tubes tied but after my dr appt today I have changed my mind and here's why...
When I was a baby I had malrotation of my intestines. So obviously there is a lot of scar tissue and my intestines are attached to my back abdominal wall. I was risking things breaking loose with my first pregnancy but nothing happened. I'm pushing my luck this time cause everything is stressed and stretched out.
The question I have is who's husband/boyfriend/fiancé has had a vasectomy instead of getting your tubes tied? She told me that it would be a high risk surgery for me but for him it would be better for him to do it if this is what we want, which it is. He hasn't thought about it until my dr told me I could run the risk of bowel perforation.
on Jul. 30, 2013 at 5:38 PM