UPDATE!!!!! Need Advice!!! DH doesn't understand what's going on!!
Since DS was 2 weeks we have done nothing but fight! He says I'm controlling everything with the baby and he hates that I talk to my mom so much.
The biggest fights are over sex and that I'm breast feeding.. He doesn't understand that I'm still in pain from giving birth. I had a great recovery and don't feel alot of pain but the inside of my girly parts... Yeah they hurt!
And the breast feeding. I can't even explain that one. I guess he feels like it adds on to me "controlling everything" and it's another thing he can't do. (Which IMO he can do everything else. This is the absolute only thing that only I can do for our son. So why not just let it be?!) I just don't know what to do. Every response turns into a fight.
Someone please give me some advice, I don't want my marriage to be ruined!
DH and I have talked multiple times since the original post. We are doing great and will probably be starting counseling soon. He actually told me today he is very proud of me for sticking with the breast feeding because he understands it is best for our son (: he said he is proud to call me his wife! I'm still not 100% done being mad but with counseling it will at least help us sort out disagreements