I think I have fixed the issue with me and my oldest sons father not getting along. I told him I don't want to have contact with him unless it has to do with our son and only through text due to him verbally abusing me. He keeps telling me he doesn't want to meet at police station to do exchanges. I told him we will have to just follow the court order. I also told him if he wants more time or time changes that he will have to file in court. I think that is good co-parenting. So that way he cannot fight with me when I am not giving him his own way.