extreme abdominal pain, needing advice. anything!
Yesterday morning started out with what felt just like serious bloating and gas pains, focalized around my stomach area. Back pains had become increasingly painful by the minute..standing was killing my back muscles, they felt like they were on FIRE and knives stabbing the sore spots and fists clenching around the knives. I just figured I was about to start my period so I took some Midol and it took the edge off of all the pain for sure. But if I pressed on my stomach I still felt that horrible pain..which was unusual for me. I tried everything last night, bowel movements, passing gas, burping..nothing made that pain really go away.
This morning when I woke up to my son waking up, I almost couldnt move. The pain in my back and stomach region was unbearable. But I pushed through it until I had to pick him up. Holding him was pressing right on the painful areas and I was crunching over with him in my arms. Luckily aftr his bottle he went back to sleep fast. This constant deep heavy pain had me unable to function properly to care for him, so I left him with my mother and went to the hospital. I know what constipation feels like and it wasn't constipation, nor is it heartburn. You know that feeling when you are beyond hungry and that emptiness starts to create a huge pain in your stomach? That's what it feels like, times 10. At the hospital I was seen almost immediately and did a urine test, and the doctor came in to press around on me and all. Then a wicked nurse who was probably having a bad day came in and gave me an antacid (which hasn't helped anything) and then came back in to give me an antibiotic for my UTI and left. She didn't explain anything to me except that that's what I had. When she came back in AGAIN I told her I had questions.
"I've had a UTI before and it was so far into the infection, had I waited a few more days I would have had kidney failure and that pain was not like this" I said.
She replies, "Well this is the beginning of the infection."
"So...how could I have gotten this?"
"Do you wear cotton underwear? You know how you young girls wear those....different underwears...."
"I dont wear thongs if thats what you mean. I ONLY wear cotton underwear."
"Do you wipe from front to back everytime?"
"It could be something unsanitary during intercourse, somethings there's bacteria that gets around.."
"I dont have sex."
"Do you take a lot of baths?"
"Actually no. I shower."
"Well....you know...." and she shook her head like I was just supposed to understand why I have a UTI.
She prescribed all kinds of things to take..and I left in disbelief. The pain has gotten worse since earlier today at the hospital and I am waiting until midnight to take the next antibiotic because it has to be spaced every twelve hours. The UTI I had 4 years ago when I was on the west coast was more of a focalized pain somewhere on the side of my torso and came in waves of gripping pain, plus there was pain sometimes when peeing. I got some cranberry juice and drank the whole thing but it didn't help..so I asked some guy to give me a ride to the hospital and made a friend out of it. But they explained everything to me there.
So I guess just because they did a urine sample at the hospital today...that UTI popped up and that's exactly what it is? Or were they just assuming I had a UTI? lol This seriously doesnt feel anywhere close to a UTI. All the pain is in my upper abdomen and constant and heavy and deep and I cant walk right, sit right, and laying down it just feels like my burning organs are out of place.
Any advice would be so lovely right now. I've been waiting all day to get on here to post this.