We are in the process of getting him his legal documents . ( he came to the US when he was 7 with his mom) and we live above my parents house. ( they needed our help, so we waited to get a house of our own )
I'm not sure this is the best time to have another baby but everyone on his side says no one is ever ready they just make it through an enjoy one another.
On my side, they tell me to finish school and buy a house get his papers fixed then have more.
By then our son will be older and wont want to play with his siblings . I am on the fence with this. All I've ever wanted was to have kids and be a better parent than my own parents were to me. So I've decided once we do have a house I wanted to open up my own home care. So that I can watch my children as well as others children's.
I was going to school for dental hygiene then switched to phlebotomy and now home based child care.
I am going to school for home based child care it's a certificate so I can open one up.