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I've lost my mind.

Posted by on Aug. 18, 2013 at 8:25 PM
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My husband and I are in the process of separating. He cheated on me and blames me for all of his problems. I haven't had any affection for months, let alone attention.

Well, recently I've been having dreams every single night about my first boyfriend (whom I'm still friends with). I wake up feeling like I missing something. Like I'm missing him or the relationship I once had with him, he was very attentive and affectionate. :(

I'm losing my mind! I shouldn't feel like this since I'm married....idk what to do :(
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by on Aug. 18, 2013 at 8:25 PM
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frndlyfn
by Emerald Member on Aug. 18, 2013 at 8:39 PM

It is a perfectly natural thing to happen given all the life changes that are going on.  You are wanting to feel cherished again and remember how a former boyfriend did exactly that.

Texasladybug84
by Member on Aug. 18, 2013 at 8:42 PM
Aww your not losing your mind! Your craving what you should've been getting from your dh. It's only natural. But I find it ironic how he cheated then blames you, sounds like a real piece of work.

Wish you the best Hun.
starlight91
by on Aug. 18, 2013 at 9:59 PM

go for it, sounds like your marriage is already over.

funhappymom
by on Aug. 19, 2013 at 10:42 AM
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I think what you are feeling is normal given all the changes you are going through. I would suggest that you consider counseling just to work out your feeling with this all.



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BatMom.
by on Aug. 19, 2013 at 10:45 AM
This.

Quoting funhappymom:

I think what you are feeling is normal given all the changes you are going through. I would suggest that you consider counseling just to work out your feeling with this all.

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