Hello everyone! Ok I need some advice. I am still early in my pregnancy but I like to have things in order. I am making a list of people I want to invite to my baby shower & I am not sure if I want some people's children there. This is my second pregnancy and at my first shower I had about 7 kids 4 nieces and 3 that were a good friends. On the invitations I put "Please no Children". And of course there was that one person who brought there child anyways. But it turned out fine. However this time I have some family that will have moved back to the area and my cousin is already telling me she will be here for my shower this time. She has 2 children and they are HORRIBLE!! So I told her I'm not having any children, so she said she might not be able to come. And of course I feel bad but her kids are very hard to handle and she just lets them run wildly! I would like my little boy to be there to help celebrate his new brother or sister, & my nieces whom are very close with me! But I don't want any others there. Is that wrong?? And what about my cousin's kids is that wrong to feel that way?? Please Help!!
on Aug. 20, 2013 at 2:42 AM