I am a divorced mother of 4 children. My 15yr old sons lives with their father in another state. He is with me every other weekend. Our other children are 5 yr old twins and a 20yr old. My ex husband doesn't allow our sons girlfriend to come over or stay at his house. My son told me that he is at his girlfriends house all the time and stays over there. I disagree with this. When my sons comes to visit for the weekend I don't allow his girlfiend to come too, I like spending time with him considering its not much time. My son text me the other day and told me I'm going to be a grandmother. I was very shocked and dissapointed but I will always be there for him. I have since heard that his father has told him that he can't have a baby at his house and that he will problably have to move in with her. I have spoke to him about this and he denies it. My son has told me he's there all the time. I think its very wrong for his father to shut the door on him. I am so sad, concerned ect. I know my son is going to ask for his girlfriend to come and stay on this next visit I don't agree with it, I can hear him saying what differnece does it make shes already pregnant, and then when the baby comes he's going to want them all to come, yes I want to see my grand child but I also have young twins, how should I handle all of this???
on Aug. 21, 2013 at 12:47 PM