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undocumented fathers?

Posted by on Sep. 3, 2013 at 7:06 PM
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Father's where paternity is not established and there is no CO who do you say whose fault that is? mom or dad's? Also do you think when there is no paternity or CO the father should have a say in the child's life or be able to help with decision making? Why or why not? 

by on Sep. 3, 2013 at 7:06 PM
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cox3
by Member on Sep. 4, 2013 at 6:58 AM
Sorry. No experience in this, but i think it depends on the type of man. If he is an abuser than he shouldn't have any rights.
lesalmi
by Member on Sep. 4, 2013 at 7:01 AM
my dd's fathers not on her b/c. I chose not to put him on it. He wanted nothing to do with any of it.
princessputter
by Silver Member on Sep. 4, 2013 at 7:01 AM

whats CO stand for.... and I think you need to be more straight forward with your question?

sunrisekn
by on Sep. 4, 2013 at 7:06 AM

Not a clue but bump 

SharonBoston
by on Sep. 4, 2013 at 5:12 PM

It's both parents' fault, depending on the situation I would say.

If there is no established paternity then why is the father even involved. Does he want to be involved or are you trying to keep him out of the loop? If there is a court order then yes he has every right for decision making and help. He's either the father or not, if he is then he has rights, but he would have to submit to a paternity test if either of you are disputing if he is the dad.

MamAshley4
by on Sep. 4, 2013 at 5:23 PM
Co=court ordered
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