My husband and I have been together for almost 7 years. He has an 8 year old son from a previous relationship and we have a two year old son together. Before we had our two year old, we always talked about trying for another child if we were to have a boy first. Recently we had a huge argument because he decided that we are done cause he only ever wanted two kids. Even though I have always considered the oldest as one of mine, I always wanted to give birth to two of my own. Now all of a sudden I'm a bitch who doesn't love my stepson enough. At the moment we can't afford another baby. Maybe we never will but I don't think its right for him to decide without me on a matter that affects both of us. Especially on something I've always wanted. I think him making decisions without me hurts almost as much as him not wanting another baby with me.
on Sep. 9, 2013 at 10:21 AM