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Posted by on Sep. 18, 2013 at 10:22 PM
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I am new to here, 8 months pregnant with baby boy (Caiden) on the way. The father of my child is so nice to his new girlfriend in which he went out with 1 month after we broke up. He doesn't care about my pregnancy and only time he is concerned is when he needs help money wise. This is my first pregnancy and I bust my ass working to save for my and my baby while he has no job and treats his "gf" special which she doesn't do anything for him she doesn't even work she is still in hs she is 18, he is 21 and I'm 23. I put on a front that i am happy for their "relationship" but deep down I am so upset and hurt i feel like he will put that chick before his baby.
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blueeyedmama34
by on Sep. 18, 2013 at 10:29 PM
I'm so sorry hun, i really wish i had some advice for ya, all i can say is keep your head up and take care of yourself and your child, i'll be saying some prayers for ya!! <3
jconney80
by Gold Member on Sep. 18, 2013 at 10:30 PM

I'm sorry! Hopefully he will be involved in his child's life.

SissyAnn141
by on Sep. 18, 2013 at 10:40 PM

 

 

             SCREW HIM !!!!

       Take him for all he is worth !!!

     I would clean house with him !!!!  angry....

   WHAT DOES IT TAKE TO MAKE YOU ANGRY ???


 




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jaycam
by on Sep. 18, 2013 at 10:46 PM

I'm sorry your going through this hard time and I hope thing's get better, The only thing I can tell you is worry about you and that baby and don't give him a dime know matter what he says. I know things suck right now but they will get better it just may take sometime.

Beenhereforever
by Bronze Member on Sep. 18, 2013 at 10:47 PM
Seriously. Stop giving him money. You need to file for child support and full custody now. He may come crawling back but he wasn't there at all now and won't be.
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by Ruby Member on Sep. 19, 2013 at 2:54 PM

Welcome to the group,
So sorry to hear this.
Maybe time time to let go of him & keep him out of your life.
Hugs to you :)

elasmimi
by Platinum Member on Sep. 19, 2013 at 4:20 PM

Sorry, but I agree with this, and I'm not usually judgemental.

Quoting SissyAnn141:

 

 

             SCREW HIM !!!!

       Take him for all he is worth !!!

     I would clean house with him !!!!  angry....

   WHAT DOES IT TAKE TO MAKE YOU ANGRY ???


emtgirl885
by Silver Member on Sep. 19, 2013 at 8:55 PM
Welcome to the group!
zeesmuse
by Bronze Member on Sep. 20, 2013 at 8:45 AM

Stop giving him money! Please. If you've not gotten the paperwork for child support enforcement started - do so. Get the paperwork for the baby's SS number started as well. The sooner you file it after the baby is born the better.


And stop putting on a front for them. Walk away!


I'm sorry.

LancesMom
by Ruby Member on Sep. 20, 2013 at 8:45 AM

Hugs! I am sorry you ae going through this. You have to realize you can't change him and move forward for you and your child. Drop him, no calls, no texts, no FB, nothing! Its about the baby now. Not him.


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