DH has been working as an apartment super for the last two years, thanks to his father who helped him get his job. Because he and his father work for the same company, just on two different sides, the company has been trying to start problems with DH, and in my opinion are trying to run him out of the company considering they have nothing to fire him on. DH has dealt with this for the last 6 years, as he worked in maintenance for this company before he became a super.
Well DH is having panic attacks that lead him to gasping for air, crying (which rarely happens when he isn't have a panic attack), and getting mad/angry. He is scared that he will take this anger/frustrations out on me, our DD and our son who isn't born yet. He called his mother last night and she told him that we can move back into her house and DH can quit his job and go to school to find a better job.
Here is my dilemma. I am 7 months pregnant and we need the health insurance, which DH gets through his job. DH has said that he is willing to stay at least until the end of the year, which is fine, but I do not want to move in with his parents, again. They have a three bedroom house, two of which are taken and I do not see four of us in one room. I guess I am just frustrated. I do not work right now as my job couldn't accomodate my pregnancy. Plus DH doesn't want me to have to work, but I have already told him that I will go back to work after the baby is born.
I don't want DH to end up in the hospital due to his stress from this job, but I don't want him to quit either. I have been looking for other jobs for him, so I'm hoping he finds something. I am also looking for jobs for me for after my son is born.
What do you think? And please no bashing...this is a difficult thing for my family to be going through.