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I GET NO PLEASURE WITH SEX!

Posted by on Sep. 25, 2013 at 9:15 AM
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No matter the size of the *penis* I dont feel nothing not a damn thing. I have never felt pleasure EVER. unless I myself play with my clit I will feel pleasure. No penetration needed. IT IS VERY FRUSTRATING!. I feel like the only one with this problem. ;( why does this happen to me? Does anyone have a clue???????? Should I seek help? ; (
by on Sep. 25, 2013 at 9:15 AM
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RADmomma
by on Sep. 25, 2013 at 9:22 AM
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 some ppl just need more than penetration.

try different positions

zashalol
by on Sep. 25, 2013 at 9:25 AM
I have :( no use :( not trying to sound gross but ineven tried.anal to c if I got pleasure out of that like other women and ABSOLUTELY NOTHING :( besides.pain and after the pain not aa thing :( y can't I be normal ; (


Quoting RADmomma:

 some ppl just need more than penetration.


try different positions


RADmomma
by on Sep. 25, 2013 at 9:27 AM

 anal takes a while... you cant really expect pleasure from that right away,

it wont hurt to bring this up to your OB.... they might have some advice

Quoting zashalol:

I have :( no use :( not trying to sound gross but ineven tried.anal to c if I got pleasure out of that like other women and ABSOLUTELY NOTHING :( besides.pain and after the pain not aa thing :( y can't I be normal ; (


Quoting RADmomma:

 some ppl just need more than penetration.


try different positions


 

zashalol
by on Sep. 25, 2013 at 9:31 AM
Thank you :)


Quoting RADmomma:

 anal takes a while... you cant really expect pleasure from that right away,


it wont hurt to bring this up to your OB.... they might have some advice


Quoting zashalol:

I have :( no use :( not trying to sound gross but ineven tried.anal to c if I got pleasure out of that like other women and ABSOLUTELY NOTHING :( besides.pain and after the pain not aa thing :( y can't I be normal ; (



Quoting RADmomma:


 some ppl just need more than penetration.



try different positions



 


RADmomma
by on Sep. 25, 2013 at 9:33 AM

 youre welcome. good luck,

have you tried toys while having sex? lots and lots of foreplay?

Quoting zashalol:

Thank you :)


Quoting RADmomma:

 anal takes a while... you cant really expect pleasure from that right away,


it wont hurt to bring this up to your OB.... they might have some advice


Quoting zashalol:

I have :( no use :( not trying to sound gross but ineven tried.anal to c if I got pleasure out of that like other women and ABSOLUTELY NOTHING :( besides.pain and after the pain not aa thing :( y can't I be normal ; (



Quoting RADmomma:


 some ppl just need more than penetration.



try different positions



 


 

zashalol
by on Sep. 25, 2013 at 9:37 AM
I have a vibrator and if I place it on my clit I will feel pleasure.... I take it off and nothing..... its like I'm dead down there no feeling what so ever. It has being like this since I lost my virginity. Sucks ass.
auburngirl814
by New Member on Sep. 25, 2013 at 9:41 AM
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I get pleasure from sex, but I dont orgasm. I  have to play with my clit in order to get an orgasm. I have been with DH now for 8 years and he is large, so I know it doesnt have to do with the size. But just ONCE I would love for DH to be able to give me an orgasm just from penetration!!

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Schizomom91
by on Sep. 25, 2013 at 9:42 AM
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Try riding him and grinding so your clit rubs on his pubic bone. Might help.
zashalol
by on Sep. 25, 2013 at 10:58 AM
U and Me both! !! I just want to know how it feels :(


Quoting auburngirl814:

I get pleasure from sex, but I dont orgasm. I  have to play with my clit in order to get an orgasm. I have been with DH now for 8 years and he is large, so I know it doesnt have to do with the size. But just ONCE I would love for DH to be able to give me an orgasm just from penetration!!


DallasCowboys81
by Platinum Member on Sep. 25, 2013 at 11:02 AM
I didnt get any pleasures from sex eiter till I got with my hubby. Toys with sex is amazing should give it a try. If you feel you need to bring it up with your OB then I would do that they usually have really good advice
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