So after printing them out and everything, she tells me she doesn't want to do it because she (Dee) doesn't get to do her own swimming thing. I was shocked.
My feeling is that one you would have two more passes and could drop the kids off in the kid zone and have swim time to yourself, two there are three adults and we could take turns (more obvious one that I mentioned) andthree could have a different outlook on it.
Don't get me wrong I do care about everyone. But both adults here have been pushing my buttons left and right, altho my list of issues with what they do is getting longer that's not what I wanted to talk about.
My whole post was because Dee wanted to make sure she could do something SHE wanted to do, not what the KIDS might want to do. Needless to say I might be taking Ds swimming tomorrow anyways, its not that I don't want to celebrate a birthday but I don't want to do something that we could do any day of the week. I get that she wants me time but when you have three kids that almost never happens.
Just to add the only other thing that Dee might do that I would consider going to is a free train ride. Its either those or going to a park roasting hot dogs and going on a walk. I really don't like the hot dogs they get and don't care for a walk in the park. Again I may do something else.