Dealing with hand me downs you don't want
One of my daughters babysits a couple of preschoolers but i do not know the mom well. I met her enough to know my daughter is safe over there but she isn't anyone i want as a friend. My daughter is constantly bring in home things from this mom for my baby. I don't care for the clothes at all, even if they were new. They seem very scratchy and not well made. At this point i probably have 2 garbage bags full of clothes and toys that i do not want. What is the most polite course of action? Send a thank you note and quietly donate the clothes or bring the stuff back and explain we have everything we need?