Son #2 is due on Christmas Eve and I'm trying to decide what I absolutely need for when he gets here. My first came 6 years ago and I wasn't planning to have another child, so I got rid of EVERYTHING. He was also in the NICU for a few months after he was born so a lot of the "firsts" were done by the hospital. He ate by feeding tube so I'm a little ignorant about feeding, but I am going to try breastfeeding. Any recommendations on gear that were "lifesavers" when you first came home? My fiance is stationed in a different state so he will only be with me for about a month after the baby's born so I will be on my own as well. Any advice is appreciated! Thank you!