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Dating a guy with a pg ex

Posted by on Nov. 4, 2013 at 4:54 PM
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My friend split with her husband because she found out he was cheating. My friend was a few weeks pregnant at the time. The gf knew he was married and expecting their 2nd child.
My friend and the x have decided to put anger aside during the birth and he will be there. The gf is calling my friend angry because she doesn't want her man at the birth.
If you were dating a man who was expecting a child would you expect him to skip the birth?
by on Nov. 4, 2013 at 4:54 PM
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Chris030406
by Platinum Member on Nov. 4, 2013 at 4:56 PM
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I wouldn't date a man who cheats on his pregnant wife.
RaisinGirl78
by Member on Nov. 4, 2013 at 4:57 PM
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I would never date a guy that had a pregnant wife.


Y2kmomma
by Bronze Member on Nov. 4, 2013 at 4:57 PM
I wouldn't be with someone who had a pregnant gf..
BUT HYPOTHETICALLY..I would totally expect him to be at birth, if Mom was willing!
Sounds like new gf is very jealous..
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Y2kmomma
by Bronze Member on Nov. 4, 2013 at 4:58 PM
Oops pregnant *wife I mean

Quoting Y2kmomma:

I wouldn't be with someone who had a pregnant gf..

BUT HYPOTHETICALLY..I would totally expect him to be at birth, if Mom was willing!
Sounds like new gf is very jealous..
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beaularson91
by Bronze Member on Nov. 4, 2013 at 4:59 PM
That gf is stupid and scum.
briellesmomma
by Gold Member on Nov. 4, 2013 at 4:59 PM
I wouldn't be in that situation.
daisybaby91
by Member on Nov. 4, 2013 at 5:00 PM
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He is an ass. And the girlfriend is a bitch. He should be focusing on the pregnancy and baby, not out trying to get some ass. Shame on both of them, and that poor mom...
gee18
by Member on Nov. 4, 2013 at 5:00 PM
I dont know... I dont want him to hold her hand and watch her push, I wouldn't be mad if he was there just maybe outside waiting until hes born... but that was his wife so idk my situation is alot more complicated than that...
baquick
by on Nov. 4, 2013 at 5:02 PM
Uh yeah... I wouldn't be in that situation.

But if I dated a guy whose ex was pregnant (no cheating) he damn well better be there for the birth and fully supporting her. I'm talking the whole nine- helping push, talking, calming etc.
Y2kmomma
by Bronze Member on Nov. 4, 2013 at 5:03 PM
You don't think he should witness his baby coming into this world? You think he should just wait in waiting room like an uncle or something?
Not judging...just wondering?


Quoting gee18:

I dont know... I dont want him to hold her hand and watch her push, I wouldn't be mad if he was there just maybe outside waiting until hes born... but that was his wife so idk my situation is alot more complicated than that...
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