My DH is lying to me (UPDATE & asking for more advice)
DH and I have been together for ten years, however, we've been married for almost five months. He recently got paid from his job and went to Game Stop to get two games that were "pre-ordered". Turns out they were not pre ordered and he ended up spending $132 as they were $60 each. I found out by going on our bank website to see how much money was left to pay bills and that was one of the transactions I found. Then I just went on the site again to again see how much money we had left and to see if DH put any money in the bank, he did, but spent $50 on an ottoman and told me it was only $20. Idk how to take this. He has never lied to me about how much something has cost in the past. Idk if it has something to do with my mother being here and he didn't want her to know. It makes me feel uneasy. I am planning on talking to him tonight.
How would you react to this? And please no bashing. I am not looking to be put down, just looking for advice. TYIA!
So it turns out that he never had the games preordered. I also found out that he borrowed $200 from a coworker so he could buy another game that he supposedly had preordered. I am beyond heated right now. I am about to give birth to our son and not only is he blowing his money on video games but now he is asking coworkers for money so he can get another one? Am I missing something here? I honestly think he has an addiction. I understand that these new games came out and he wants them, that's all fine and dandy. What's not is that we now have very little in the bank and I now need to see a doctor, pay for a co pay and a prescription as well as put gas in the car and can't do that with the amount of money we have left. Please again no bashing. I am looking for advice.