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Would you call this cheating?!?!

Posted by on Nov. 12, 2013 at 6:16 PM
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So my husband likes to look at porn. It bothers me to an extent but I just tell with it. Well I was being a snoopy wife and checked his account on a site I know he visits a lot and he sent a dirty email to one of the girls. I know he wouldn't actually physically do anything because we both come from broken homes due to cheating dads but I can't help but feel like he is in some way cheating on me. Am I over reacting or are my feelings justified?????
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frndlyfn
by Emerald Member on Nov. 12, 2013 at 6:17 PM
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I think it is a form of cheating..... If he wants to look at porn, no biggie but actual interaction with them and not telling you?  a big no no.

AromaDrops33
by Bronze Member on Nov. 12, 2013 at 6:17 PM
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Looking at porn is one thing, but sending a dirty email to someone is crossing the line. Contacting other woman is a big red flag for me
lucky2Beeme
by Platinum Member on Nov. 12, 2013 at 6:18 PM
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 I wouldnt like it at all. Spending money to text or send dirty emails is Nasty and expensive. If you dont like it shut him down now.

crazymomma87
by on Nov. 12, 2013 at 6:18 PM
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I'd be pissed off. I would be really pissed off.
EJsHottMama
by Bronze Member on Nov. 12, 2013 at 6:21 PM
Its a free site so there is no cost to message. I've told him before I didn't like it and he quit looking for awhile but started again.

Quoting lucky2Beeme:

 I wouldnt like it at all. Spending money to text or send dirty emails is Nasty and expensive. If you dont like it shut him down now.

teal.blaze
by on Nov. 12, 2013 at 6:21 PM
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Definitely cheating. For me, the porn is a no-no, but I can understand if BOTH parties are ok with it. You need to tell him NOW what your expectations are. And he needs to respect them.
pots48love
by on Nov. 12, 2013 at 6:21 PM
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My hubby always watch porn and send stick msges on fb girl and I pissed off by dis I thhink sumtym I should also cheat him
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DallasCowboys81
by Platinum Member on Nov. 12, 2013 at 6:21 PM
If your uncomfortable with it, talk to him about it and let him know how you feel. Me personally, no I do not get upset or feel its cheating. Good luck mama
was2now3
by on Nov. 12, 2013 at 6:21 PM

this!

Quoting frndlyfn:

I think it is a form of cheating..... If he wants to look at porn, no biggie but actual interaction with them and not telling you?  a big no no.


Mauimomof2
by on Nov. 12, 2013 at 6:22 PM
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I don't think your over reacting, watching porn is normal but talking to the girls is not ok in my eyes
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