My husband and Female Friends-I NEED Advice
Now I have 1 friend that I grew up with. She's about my age, dated her husband for 3 months and got married. They've been married for 15 years or so. She told my husband (since they go way back since kids) that she has an interest with another man that also has a family. This is her best friends husband. She almost went all the way with this guy but didn't because she's married, although they were both naked and wanted advice since my husband is a counselor and she was embarrassed and scared to share this with anyone else. Anyways during the time I was dating my husband years ago, she had a big crush on my husband. I noticed that she still has some kind of feelings for him because she told him to call her if my husband and I ever divorce. He laughed it off. Then other times she would just flirt with him and he would laugh. I had a talk with her and told her I didn't like her messages and she was embarrassed & said she would stop doing that and asked me not to say anything about her cheating on her husband since it would destroy her 3 young kids (youngest is like 4-5 years old). Months later she doesn't stop and I'm getting annoyed. She laughed when she found out that I blocked her phone number and told my husband through text or whatsapp "what's so wrong with being friends?" My husband agreed and said he could call her from his work phone. I told him that's taking her side and disregarding my feelings to go behind my back and he says he feels disrespected that I blocked this girl from the phone...the 1 that I talked to and told her to stop flirting with my husband and she said she would but still does. If she cheated on her best friend's husband, what can I expect from her that I'm not a close friend but just grew up seeing her around. My husband says I'm crazy.