So apparently my almost 13 yr old has a girlfriend. ( He knows that he is not allowed to start dating until he is at least 16). I just found this out. So the other night I get this phone call and I answer it and the girl asks for K. I ask who it is becaue no girl should be calling asking for him. She says K's friend (in a little rude snotty attitude). I told her that he isn't allowed to have phone calls so she hangs up. So last night I had to go and run an errand. I was only gone maybe 10 minutes and I come home and he is on the phone ( he isn't allowed to use the phone without asking). I ask who he is talking nto and he said he was talking to his sister, well ok if it's his sister. My other son comes and whispers that it's not his sister but it's his girlfriend. I"M TICKED OFF NOW. So I tell him that I need to ask his sister a question and he lies and says it's his brother. That's when I let him know that I know who it is and to get off the phone. Apparenty lately everytime he has been asking to call his sister he has been calling this girl. I don't know that to do with him anymore. We have been having problems with him lying, stealing smoking cigs and pot.
Let me say that he is not my bio child. I have legal guardianship of him. Been helping raise him since he was a baby.