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No More Kids ?!

Posted by on Dec. 7, 2013 at 12:24 PM
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My Husband and I Have Talked About Maybe Taking My Mirena Out In Another Year.(we have a 13mo old ).. But Just Last Night He Tells Me That Maybe He Doesnt Want Anymore Kids.Im Kind Of Heartbroken !
by on Dec. 7, 2013 at 12:24 PM
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fighterforabby
by on Dec. 7, 2013 at 12:42 PM

Thats horrible on a womans point of view ....Thats a talk you to need to have

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gavs4boys
by on Dec. 7, 2013 at 12:54 PM

You need to talk to him about how you feel.  He might change him mind later

SweetCharisma
by Member on Dec. 7, 2013 at 1:54 PM

You should be talking then about it with him if you two have different feelings on the matter. 

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jconney80
by Platinum Member on Dec. 7, 2013 at 11:04 PM

I'm really sorry that he said that. I'd definitely talk to him about it! Does he have any reasons why he says he might not want anymore kids? 

Hottmomma607
by Trica on Dec. 8, 2013 at 12:07 AM
Wow thats a hard decision!
I know when DH&I got married we each had a kid from previous relationships,I was ready to start trying for a baby of "our" own but he wanted to wait! I still had a BC in so no danger of me getting preggers. We do finally decide to try&we took steps in having my BC removed! Afterwards we had two more! Even though I miscarried before our first child together came along. The last baby was an oops! We were actually happy with the 3rd child & felt our family complete, we agreed on no matter but nature said otherwise. Lol
Mrs.MikeC
by on Dec. 8, 2013 at 8:45 PM
I wouldn't take this literally... My husband and I went back and forth until dd was 2 1/2. What changed our minds was when we realized dd#1 was getting spoiled by her grandparents. We realized she had great potential to become bratty and entitled. Plus I love my siblings! ;)

Give it time, it might be just a phase.
Warne10
by on Dec. 9, 2013 at 12:20 AM
he just says he would like it to be just us 3 .. i think hes just nervous because our son is already starting terrible 2s at 13mo.! haha

Quoting jconney80:

I'm really sorry that he said that. I'd definitely talk to him about it! Does he have any reasons why he says he might not want anymore kids? 

KellyNips
by Member on Dec. 9, 2013 at 8:33 AM

remember that you and he are a couple -- you have to respect him and his feelings.  don't trick him into having another child.  he sounds like a solid man and one that is only looking out for your family's future.  perhaps he feels that he would not be able to sufficiently provide for another child.  just consider his feelings and thoughts before you jump to any conclusions or do something stupid.

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