For the LONGEST time I Really didn't like my MIL but in the last yr I have grown to love her!! In January I got Pneumonia and Bronchitis, which landed me in the Hospital for 3 days and as soon as my DH told his mom she rushed to the hospital to check on me and sat with me while my DH went to get food... then instead of my DH having to leave me there to take care of the kids, she went to the house and took care of them for 3 days!! She cleaned the house and disinfected the whole house so maybe I wouldn't get sick again (its didn't work sadly) But since then we have really gotten closer and I don't feel like I am a nuisence to her... I think maybe her additude towards me was due to the fact that my DH has M.S. and has been hurt several time by "women" who say they love him and then drain him dry and run off when he has an attack from his M.S.! I LOVE him and would never leave him for something like that! It would take a serious SERIOUS issue for me to even concider leaving him. We argue and bicker but what Couple doesn't? Just last week she was here and my DH moved my wallet then couldn't remember where he put it, and I was leaving with her to go pick up his Christmas gift.. I was MAD, told him to stop touching my Sh*t and Nagged at him for the whole 20 mins it took him to find it! She just laughed and told me I sounded like her!! But I am completely RELIEVED that our relationship has improved!!! I also am naming our DD After her Mother which has made her so very happy!! Talley was her Mother Maiden name but Grandpa called her Talley instead of her actual name... I can explain that later if any wants to know why! LOL
How is your relationship with your MIL and has it had a change like ours one way or another... Did u love her once and she do something to change it Or did you dislike her once and that change?