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im so upset

Posted by on Dec. 27, 2013 at 2:08 PM
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I've had a lot of sickness in my family and went through major heath issues and depression in the last couple months and went to Walmart just now and a lady I know came up to me and said wow you gained weight and it just came out of left field and than she said big and all I could say was yeah I am I was so ashamed and embarrished that I sat out in car and cried and the funny thing is I've lost 10 lbs because I'm trying.thank you ladies for listening-debra anne
by on Dec. 27, 2013 at 2:08 PM
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terpmama
by Gold Member on Dec. 27, 2013 at 2:18 PM
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Wow what a bitch!
momofsixangels
by Ruby Member on Dec. 27, 2013 at 2:21 PM
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She was very rude!!!

Own4ever
by New Member on Dec. 27, 2013 at 2:26 PM
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That was very rude for her to say that, but be proud of yourself for losing weight! She doesn't pay your bills or doesn't put food in your mouth! so she doesn't matter. I have to deal with my in-laws saying things like that to me almost everytime I see them.

amonkeymom
by Platinum Member on Dec. 27, 2013 at 2:27 PM

That was a very rude thing for anyone to say, let alone a "friend".  (((hug)))

happyolechimp
by Member on Dec. 27, 2013 at 2:32 PM
i would never say that...to anyone...she's way outta bounds....it's okay hun.... O:-)
LEMONS
by Bronze Member on Dec. 27, 2013 at 2:36 PM
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I thank God for you ladies everyday.I have no one to talk to and I needed someone to just listen:-)
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by Ruby Member on Dec. 27, 2013 at 2:43 PM

Aww that was rude of her ;(
Hugs to yoiu & keep trying & congrats on your 10 pound loss ;)

emtgirl885
by Silver Member on Dec. 27, 2013 at 8:40 PM
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Hugs! So not nice of her! Congratulations on your weight loss, keep up the hard work!
cali_angel_girl
by Member on Dec. 27, 2013 at 8:55 PM

((hugs)) i'm sorry that was very rude of her to say.  

Bmat
by Ruby Member on Dec. 27, 2013 at 9:02 PM
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I always say "Consider the source."  It means don't let someone who would say something like that make you so unhappy.  She's not the judge of you.  When someone says something mean like that, they are usually worried about the same thing in themselves. She must feel insecure about herself and you just happened to be in her line of fire.  Stand tall and feel good!!

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