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My boyfriend has a baby by me (she will be here soon) and a baby by someone else. But he lives with her at his family's house. In two different bed rooms. And I live with my mom. He always tells me he wants to live with me but has not tried to even find a place of his own. What should I do?.
by on Jan. 4, 2014 at 1:34 PM
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For.Spartacus
by on Jan. 5, 2014 at 6:31 PM
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Ummm yeah i have nothing.
KendallsMommee
by Bronze Member on Jan. 5, 2014 at 6:33 PM
Good luck with that.

Make sure you at least get child support from him.
IncognitoOne
by Angela-Marie on Jan. 5, 2014 at 6:48 PM

I'd run. 

JoshRachelsMAMA
by JRM on Jan. 5, 2014 at 6:52 PM
I can't offer any constructive advice nor say anything nice so,
That's all.
TRAVELMOM817
by on Jan. 5, 2014 at 11:27 PM
He's just not that into you. Just another notch in his belt.
Pnukey
by on Jan. 5, 2014 at 11:32 PM

You should continue living where you're living. He can do whatever it is he's doing at his mama's house. Get your DNA test and file for child support. Don't turn into a bitter harpy, but don't have any more babies either. GL.

mizhoward
by Silver Member on Jan. 5, 2014 at 11:47 PM
That doesn't sound right to me. You need to be very careful in this situation.
grannywilson
by Member on Jan. 5, 2014 at 11:49 PM

Take the clue.  Is is where he wants to be or he would be doing something about the situation.  I agree totally with pnukey.  Get your DNA testing and go forward with what you need to do for your child.  Please learn something from this.  It is not your mom's responsibility to support this little girl. 

SylviaNCali
by on Jan. 6, 2014 at 3:11 AM

He's just not that into you. The she has no where to go is just a lame excuse. If he wanted to be with you he would do anything to do so.

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Ninjascreenname
by Member on Jan. 6, 2014 at 3:25 AM
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Move on because you're the side girl and he's not going to leave her. Also, the term "baby daddy" makes you look young and very uneducated. He's your child's father and if I was you I would come to terms with raising your baby alone, with very little to no help from him.
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