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Would you forgive your SO... *edit*

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If he cheated on you?

My boyfriend confessed to cheating on me yesterday. We have a 2 year old little girl together. I have no clue what to do right now, just like in a state of shock right now. His reason was, "I love being with you, but the sex isn't enjoyable." I'm just so torn, part of me wants to give him another chance, and the other part is disgusted every time I see him.

**Edit** I decided to forgive him, and we are taking it slow. He has drastically chranged and making strides to redeem himself. This is his last chance and of he does it again, I am done. Thank you all for the kind words.
by on Jan. 9, 2014 at 9:35 PM
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beadingmom17
by Rachel on Jan. 9, 2014 at 9:58 PM
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His ass would be out the door and his shit would hit him in the head as I chucked it at him. Bullshit he loves you. If he loved you he would have told you there was an issue, not cheated on you.
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.lovemybebes.
by Bronze Member on Jan. 9, 2014 at 9:58 PM
Thank you all :)
CarlyEliz
by Member on Jan. 9, 2014 at 9:59 PM
Get rid of him ASAP! Been down that road and giving him another chance is the wrong move!
humblemommy
by Member on Jan. 9, 2014 at 10:00 PM

I could not and would not forgive him. I would never be able to trust him again...ever. 

briellesmomma
by Gold Member on Jan. 9, 2014 at 10:04 PM
Ugh. Why didn't you message me? That Fucking Asshole!
alf2651
by Silver Member on Jan. 9, 2014 at 10:04 PM

No.

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.lovemybebes.
by Bronze Member on Jan. 9, 2014 at 10:18 PM
How long does this feeling last? I just can't stop crying. :( I feel if I was better at certain things, he wouldn't feel the need to have cheated.
coolmommy2x
by Ruby Member on Jan. 9, 2014 at 10:19 PM
I agree.

Quoting lesalmi: While I may have forgiven cheating... I wouldn't forgive that comment. If it's not enjoyable he will continue to do it.
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momoftwogirl55
by Member on Jan. 9, 2014 at 10:21 PM
I did..but if it happened again, we'd be done.
rfhsure
by on Jan. 9, 2014 at 10:22 PM
Youre better than that. You deserve better than that. Unacceptable.
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