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Would you forgive your SO... *edit*

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If he cheated on you?

My boyfriend confessed to cheating on me yesterday. We have a 2 year old little girl together. I have no clue what to do right now, just like in a state of shock right now. His reason was, "I love being with you, but the sex isn't enjoyable." I'm just so torn, part of me wants to give him another chance, and the other part is disgusted every time I see him.

**Edit** I decided to forgive him, and we are taking it slow. He has drastically chranged and making strides to redeem himself. This is his last chance and of he does it again, I am done. Thank you all for the kind words.
by on Jan. 9, 2014 at 9:35 PM
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xtwistedxlovex
by Gold Member on Jan. 10, 2014 at 12:51 AM

Yes and no. I could never trust him again, and I cannot spend my life with someone I don't trust...so while I could probably forgive him, it would still be the end of our relationship.

Given what yours had to say about it, that's doubly so. Do you really think it wouldn't happen again? I don't.

.lovemybebes.
by Bronze Member on Jan. 10, 2014 at 12:53 AM
I asked him why didn't he just tell me, and his reply was, "well you didn't ask"

Quoting Franbuessa: Wow, for him to just be so honest, I'd be upset. His reasons were very selfish. The fact that he blamed it on you is cruel.



Quoting .lovemybebes.: Just in his actions, so I asked.





Quoting Franbuessa: If it was an emotional cheating, I don't think I could.



Sorry for your heartache. Did he tell you on his own or were you suspicious and questioned him?
Apgsteenmommy
by on Jan. 10, 2014 at 12:53 AM
No never . I would leave him in a second
Heisenberg
by on Jan. 10, 2014 at 12:54 AM

I used to say yes, but after all we've been through it would be the ultimate betrayal. So now? No. Several years ago maybe.

BubbasMa12
by on Jan. 10, 2014 at 12:57 AM
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I could forgive the cheating, over time. It would never be forgotten though. But his comment. .. that would scar the relationship. If you want to stick together, you are going to need some serious counseling. I'm sorry this happened mama. Good luck
mamiof4monsters
by on Jan. 10, 2014 at 1:10 AM
I would never forgive my husband if that happend
Caitlin10081989
by Ruby Member on Jan. 10, 2014 at 1:37 AM
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I would forgive him. 

gugu250
by New Member on Jan. 10, 2014 at 3:22 AM
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The comment is meant to put you down so that you feel guilty and think there is something wrong with you. You might not be compatible (sexwise). Forgive him, and end the relationship. There is someone for you out there. Someone who will respect your feelings and love  being intimate with you. Leave this person. He is gonna erode your confidence and self esteem. I  am sory to hear that.

Funerary
by New Member on Jan. 10, 2014 at 3:25 AM
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Sorry I didn't read your post, but I just want to comment that your picture is so pretty! You are a gorgeous girl. Model material. Maybe thos post was hypothetically, but if you were asking about a real life occurance no one should cheat on you. You have the kind of looks most guys would cheat on their woman if they had the chance to get with. haha

.lovemybebes.
by Bronze Member on Jan. 10, 2014 at 3:56 AM
Thank you

Quoting Funerary:

Sorry I didn't read your post, but I just want to comment that your picture is so pretty! You are a gorgeous girl. Model material. Maybe thos post was hypothetically, but if you were asking about a real life occurance no one should cheat on you. You have the kind of looks most guys would cheat on their woman if they had the chance to get with. haha

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