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Would you forgive your SO... *edit*

Posted by on Jan. 9, 2014 at 9:35 PM
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If he cheated on you?

My boyfriend confessed to cheating on me yesterday. We have a 2 year old little girl together. I have no clue what to do right now, just like in a state of shock right now. His reason was, "I love being with you, but the sex isn't enjoyable." I'm just so torn, part of me wants to give him another chance, and the other part is disgusted every time I see him.

**Edit** I decided to forgive him, and we are taking it slow. He has drastically chranged and making strides to redeem himself. This is his last chance and of he does it again, I am done. Thank you all for the kind words.
by on Jan. 9, 2014 at 9:35 PM
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AromaDrops33
by on Jan. 9, 2014 at 9:39 PM
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I could never forgive him.....ever.
lesalmi
by Member on Jan. 9, 2014 at 9:40 PM
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While I may have forgiven cheating... I wouldn't forgive that comment. If it's not enjoyable he will continue to do it.
ana.rivera9812
by on Jan. 9, 2014 at 9:42 PM
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Dnt think i could ever forgive him buht then again u never noe until ur in the situation i am so sorry to hear that
StormiAnn
by Silver Member on Jan. 9, 2014 at 9:43 PM
I agree with her! How hurtful of him to say :'(

Quoting lesalmi: While I may have forgiven cheating... I wouldn't forgive that comment. If it's not enjoyable he will continue to do it.
queenamy
by Silver Member on Jan. 9, 2014 at 9:45 PM


Quoting lesalmi: While I may have forgiven cheating... I wouldn't forgive that comment. If it's not enjoyable he will continue to do it.

my  thoughts exactly

_abeauty92
by Member on Jan. 9, 2014 at 9:48 PM
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I agree with her.

Quoting StormiAnn: I agree with her! How hurtful of him to say :'(



Quoting lesalmi: While I may have forgiven cheating... I wouldn't forgive that comment. If it's not enjoyable he will continue to do it.
cLanief
by on Jan. 9, 2014 at 9:50 PM
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Hell fucking no! Especially after his reasoning. That means he will most likely always cheat. Kick him in the balls and run!!!!
korra2013
by on Jan. 9, 2014 at 9:50 PM
I have forgiven cheating but that comment.. he would be out the door. Don't get me wrong cheating isn't ok but I'm no saint either

Quoting lesalmi: While I may have forgiven cheating... I wouldn't forgive that comment. If it's not enjoyable he will continue to do it.
momma2b2008
by on Jan. 9, 2014 at 9:50 PM
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Nope, but I would pack his shit for him.
amanda.lyn
by on Jan. 9, 2014 at 9:55 PM
Nope...
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