I am 38, DH is 52. We have three kids. One is his, one is mine, one is ours. Together for 8 years married 7. Both work FT. He comes home and cooks dinner, works on his hobbies, I clean and do the motherly needed stuff. I am in bed at 10:30 he sleeps on the couch nightly. In the morning I get up get kids ready, he waits till last minute and goes out the door. On our days off he does his thing...air field an garage work. I do church, or cleaning, running errands. We do nothing together. Don't really have emotional conversations or special times.
How do I know if this is enough. Our bills are paid no debt, we are all healthy. I am just imaging being this lonely for the rest of my life. Maybe I am expecting g to much. We love each other. Just seems are priorities are the same but are interest is not with each other anymore.