My live-in b/f and I each have 14 y/o old boys, my son's cell is currently taken away and I was looking at his history and pics yesterday and saw a video of the boys in their room (very small house, they share a room) with a 15 y/o girl who was over. All was very normal if you just heard the audio, but the video showed my son rubbing bf's son's penis through a blanket on and off during the video. The girl was sitting on the floor, bf's son was looking at his cell, looking at the girl when she talked, all totally acting like nothing was going on. We have not talked to them yet, my son comes over from his dad's today. Everyone seemed to be aware of being taped but that is the first thing we will be addressing. The casualness of it is very disturbing. The girl acted just as chill about it as the boys did. My bf assures me this is fairly normal boy behavior, and I know kids record themselves and take selfies all the time, but to have the girl present is not okay. We will definitely impose a no closed door rule for when girls are around. Any advice?
on Feb. 2, 2014 at 7:43 AM