Ever since my son was born my fiancé's sex drive has decreased---we went from having sex almost every day before pregnancy to neither of us feeling like having it these days. But, the romance is slowly coming back and I predict more sex in the future! :) I love sex. But when it's forced because it's something you're supposed to do in a relationship it can be very dull, boring, and a turn off. That's why we have decreased our sex until we get that intimacy back in our relationship
Quoting Sparkler16: No and if I did I honestly don't think I'd still be married. As bad as it sounds I know as much as my husband loves me he wouldn't tolerate a sexless marriage and honestly neither would I
I never understood it? Why get married if you hate it?
Some may becuase of bad sexual experiences. I had a bad one, and there are times where i love it.. but other times i tell my hubby to like not touch me or he invades my bubble. Some just feel gross having it so they dont engage in it
I'm not crazy about actual sex, I could take it or leave it, but I LOVE other stuff, hand jobs, oral, those sorts of things.
I love it.
I don't hate sex but I can't get any enjoyment or pleasure out of it like I would like to because lack of a Sex Drive which really makes me feel less of a woman. Luckily I have a wonderful understanding man in my life and he doesn't look down on me, nor judge me and accepts me for who I am. I have depression issues as well and not being able to naturally get aroused w/o a vibrator makes my depression worse and makes me analyze if something is wrong with me.
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