Join the Meeting Place for Moms!
Talk to other moms, share advice, and have fun!

(minimum 6 characters)

The CafeMom Newcomers Club The CafeMom Newcomers Club

Fiancee hiding going on free dating sites

Posted by on Feb. 3, 2014 at 2:26 AM
  • 42 Replies
1 mom liked this
We live together, have two young kids together and were planning on getting married. We already went through me finding him on dating sites messaging other woman when I was 8 months pregnant with our now 7 month old son. he lies now and says anything dating site related on his phone pops up automatically when he goes on certain porn sites. I have found his email tied to multiple accounts though. He then stated that messaging the woman on those free sites are fake. basically like interactive porn. psshhh whatever. I am open to any and all advice ladies. Of course I have my own gut intuition but its still nice to have some fellow womanly support.
by on Feb. 3, 2014 at 2:26 AM
Add your quick reply below:
You must be a member to reply to this post.
Replies (1-10):
Elle.tea.22
by Bronze Member on Feb. 3, 2014 at 7:59 AM
3 moms liked this
You stayed with him the first time, he knows you're going to stay this time too.
lapcounter
by Super Mom on Feb. 3, 2014 at 8:00 AM
Aaaaand your still engaged to him why?
Posted on CafeMom Mobile
elasmimi
by Platinum Member on Feb. 3, 2014 at 8:00 AM

I'd kick him to the curb, but that's just me.

Serabeth06
by Bronze Member on Feb. 3, 2014 at 8:15 AM
3 moms liked this

I wouldn't put up with that, but that's me. I'd rather be alone than in a relationship and completely disrespected.

funhappymom
by Silver Member on Feb. 3, 2014 at 8:27 AM

Time for you to decide if this is the life you want to live. It won't change unless he's willing to change. Good luck.



**Post ANONYMOUSLY on Mom Confessions!**

momwith2monkeys
by on Feb. 3, 2014 at 8:59 AM
They will pop up on porn sites. I had a similar issue about a year ago
My dh was doing it too. Now he does have pop up in his history but nothing in. His e-mail.
Bmat
by Ruby Member on Feb. 3, 2014 at 10:23 AM

With this many warning signs, it would seem that is time for you to move on. If you haven't tried couples counseling yet you may want to.

Kspencer11
by Member on Feb. 3, 2014 at 1:19 PM

My husband had pop ups on his phone. Nothing was in his emails. If he were to turn and look at free dating site, communicating back and fourth, there wouldn't be a marriage any more, imo. i would leave with my two kids.

Texas.Mama
by Member on Feb. 3, 2014 at 2:06 PM
Get rid of him.
BluntBombshell
by New Member on Feb. 3, 2014 at 3:26 PM
1 mom liked this
Thank you everyone for your responses! :)

Momwithtwomonkeys: thank you for sharing a similar situation. It takes courage sometimes to come out on a public forum with the truth.

Quoting momwith2monkeys: They will pop up on porn sites. I had a similar issue about a year ago

My dh was doing it too. Now he does have pop up in his history but nothing in. His e-mail.
Add your quick reply below:
You must be a member to reply to this post.
Join the Meeting Place for Moms!
Talk to other moms, share advice, and have fun!

(minimum 6 characters)