I'm new, and I have a big question reguarding circ.
I'm not real sure if this is the right place to post this question, but I can't seem to really find an appropriate place for it.
I have a son already and had him circed and at the time it was a no brainer for me or my husband. To my knowledge all the men in my family are. But now I'm having another boy and I have a whole lot more information now on the pros and cons. Truth be told I really don't want to do it to my second son, but is it fair to have one circed and the other not? Will that cause strife between them later? Also what do you do when your husband threatens to go behind your back to get the procedure done if you refuse to?
As you can see I'm lost and I need unbiased (non family) advice. Please help.