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sex during pregnancy

Posted by on Feb. 12, 2014 at 3:14 PM
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I'm 17 weeks pregnant and sex with my boyfriend is not the same. It's uncomfortable and I find myself bored with it. Did anyone else have this problem?
by on Feb. 12, 2014 at 3:14 PM
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frankiesma530
by Silver Member on Feb. 12, 2014 at 3:14 PM
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No, I was a horn dog when I was pregnant.

BUMP

lizz23
by on Feb. 12, 2014 at 6:34 PM

 im 19 wks and sex was amazing before but its like 2000x more amazing now lol i was so worried, self conscious when i first got preg thinking he wouldnt be attracted to me or that it would change us but so far its brought us so much closer in an intimate way. i think alot of it is a mind thing. have you tried spicing it up or maybe thinking about things and getting yourself riled up before? i know the first few weeks for me becamse routine and we had to have a talk about needing more romance so it doesnt seem like a chore.

kanesgirl13
by on Feb. 12, 2014 at 6:47 PM
Im 16 weeks and at first it hurt but after a few weeks its awesome.
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WILDCATGAL78
by Bronze Member on Feb. 12, 2014 at 8:18 PM

Nope, I am the opposite. I couldn't get enough.

amonkeymom
by Platinum Member on Feb. 14, 2014 at 12:23 PM

Every woman is different.  Some have an increased sex drive during pregnancy and some have a decreased sex drive.  It's ok and it's normal to not desire sex.

FlutterbyMom3
by on Feb. 14, 2014 at 12:24 PM
We had to switch positions to either me on top or doggy. It was the only way to be comfortable.
Pinky_14
by on Apr. 7, 2014 at 11:06 PM
Both of those positions are very painful for me any suggestions?
k_dinapoli
by on Apr. 8, 2014 at 12:28 AM
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Spooning position. Worked great even when I was 39 weeks :)

Quoting Pinky_14: Both of those positions are very painful for me any suggestions?
ditsyjo
by on Apr. 8, 2014 at 1:20 AM

keep trying new postitions untill you find one that is enjoyable for both of you...  and it's not uncommon to have decreased drive.

AmericanChild82
by on Apr. 8, 2014 at 1:33 AM
I completely lost my drive during my last pregnancy. I would cave and give it up but I never enjoyed it. Every position hurt in some fashion. The least painful was doggy style.
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