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Who Picks Up The Slack When You're DONE?

Posted by on Feb. 19, 2014 at 6:03 PM
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We all know that the cooking, cleaning, and laundry doesn't do itself. So who picks up the slack when you're having a bad day and call it quits? Does the whole household come to an abrupt stop for a day or two until you're back on your feet? Does your DH/SO chip in? Do you have older kids that can takeover?

by on Feb. 19, 2014 at 6:03 PM
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KendallsMommee
by Bronze Member on Feb. 19, 2014 at 6:05 PM
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Dh would.

But I rarely have those kind of days.
Mrs.Kubalabuku
by Silver Member on Feb. 19, 2014 at 6:06 PM
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DH does, and my sons are both learning to do basic chores.

eesmommy
by Gold Member on Feb. 19, 2014 at 6:07 PM
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Lol .... yeah, it waits for me lol. Dh will do whatever I ask when I ask him to. When I was in the hospital he took over everything, but day to day, what doesn't get done just waits.
E.L.PAIGE
by on Feb. 19, 2014 at 6:11 PM
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My husband will help of i ask him to, but not just on his own lol. Kids don't help, my 11 year old gets grounded constantly for not doing his chores or taking 2 hours to wipe his bathroom down and still leaving half of it messy and fighting me the whole way thru it. Other son its too young to help (1)
Molimomma
by Member on Feb. 19, 2014 at 6:14 PM
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Nobody. If I ever get hit by truck my household us colossally screwed. DH doesn't do squat unless asked...repeatedly...and even then other than dishes or taking out the trash...not gonna happen. He doesn't vaccume. We lived here 2.5 years and he's never once cleaned a bathroom or changed sheets. When he brought home the stomache virus I specifically planned a crock pot meal for 48 hrs later so when I got it they'd have dinner without me having to actually cook it.

Senile-felines
by Member on Feb. 19, 2014 at 6:16 PM
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They'll all help. When I had my shoulder surgery in August, they would come to the recliner and ask what they could do...
Megs5384
by on Feb. 19, 2014 at 6:17 PM
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My house goes to hell when I have those days! lol I was actually just thinking about this as I sit in bed in horrible pain for the 3rd day and the several meals worth of meat I bought on sale sits in my fridge waiting to be repackaged. The same meat that my DF promised that he would repackeage for me since I was hurting so bad. There is also laundry piling up, dishes piling up and my living room is in chaos! I'm hoping to be back to normal tomorrow because my house can't take much more!

Supermom861605
by on Feb. 19, 2014 at 6:51 PM
I can't have one of these days because I do everything my three year old is to Young to take over. If I had to have one of these day I would have to ask one my friends to watch my kids
elasmimi
by Platinum Member on Feb. 19, 2014 at 7:09 PM

This past summer I had a series of accidents that completely incapacitated me, and dh really stepped up to the plate. He took care of me, the house, (sort of) and the child. But once I was on my feet, I was on my own again.

Mommy4-27-08
by Bronze Member on Feb. 19, 2014 at 7:24 PM
My DF for most of it, the rest waits for me.
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