My husband just told me he wants a divorce. I have no clue what to do. I do not want a divorce. I am just numb from crying. Our oldest turns 7 in less that 2 weeks, the youngest 3 soon after and I am due with #3 June 2. what the hell am I going to do? We are 2 mo away from our 5th anniversary been together almost 8 years!
*Update* We talked and it seems he is open to us having a relationship in the future, but he just doesn't want to be married. I can't quite wrap my head around that. He just hates the fact that we are married. He wants the freedom to just be responsible for him. I think he is being selfish, we have kids, it will never be just about him. I feel used , like he did a trial run to see what marriage would be like. I don't know what to do. I want him to be happy, but it hurts that he feels being married will never make him happy. I guess I sort of wonder if this has ever happened to anyone else? Where a relationship worked out long-term, but the marriage part had to be ended.