The team often has parties or outings together. The high strung girl has had outbursts and is no longer invited. I haven't been hosting things as i just had a baby so i haven't been a part of the decision to exclude her.
Yesterday there was a large Bday party and every member of the team went, including girls that were on the team last year but not this year. Only the girl in question was not included.
We had a practice today and of course this girl found out. Had i known she was the only one not invited my daughter would not have gone. Now it's too late and this child is very sad and upset. Who wouldn't be???
Should i talk to the other moms and let them know how i feel about excluding this girl? Should i talk to the mom, who isn't my friend but i went to high school with, and explain the issue in hopes she can work with her daughter?
The girl is not special ed as I'm in the special ed dept at her school and i would know if she was even being evaluated.