If I had it my way, he would have nothing to do with her. He's nothing but a disappointment to her, in and out of jail all the time... however, someway, somehow, he always gets his way. He was granted visitation in prison once a week. Unbelievable, I know. That's not even the best part. I'll save that for the end...
He's now home, and yes he lives with his parents, always has. I asked him to switch the visitation day this past weekend so he'd get her Saturday instead of Sunday because my niece was having her birthday party on Sunday. He agreed to it the week before, and then suddenly Friday night, he changed his mind. My daughter called him and said- "The reason I want to come over Saturday instead of Sunday is cuz i want go to Lilli's pool party--" he interrupts her to say, "Angelica, tell your mother she's immature, and I'll see you Sunday" CLICK! hung up on her. First of all, ARE YOU KIDDING ME? You're really gunna tell a 6 year old little girl to say something bad to her mother and then call yourself a father? I didn't even want to let her call because i knew he'd think I put her up to it, but she was crying and wanted to talk him. So now, not only is she upset she can't go to her cousin's party, but she's devastated that this person who claims to be her father told her call her mommy immature. As much as I hate him, I NEVER EVER bad mouth him to her or in front of her. I believe she will form her own opinion of him and she doesn't need my help. She doesn't know the horrible things he's done.
Anyway...finally, his mother calls me at 11am and says they changed their minds. They are going to come get her. So now she's happy.. great. They are supposed to get her from 11am to 7p.m... since they didn't end up getting her until noon, I told them they could keep her till 8 and he says, just pick her up at 7. Again... are you KIDDING me? But you actually give a shit about your kid right? END OF RANT
Sorry if there are typos.. I'm posting this with my phone and autocorrect hates me sometimes, hopefully the post makes sense lol.