My second issue is been a step mom. I know what I walk my self in too and do I wish I could of walk out of it when I had the chance? Yes!
I fell in love too quick and I just couldn't let him go, because I knew he was the man I wanted to marry. Sorry I do have a bad spelling g and bad grammar, so I apologize. My step daughter is not a trouble maker, she's a really good girl. She's 6 and she calls me mommy. My only issue is that I have to share my life with her mom. I can't stand her, and since my step daughter is 6 then I have to deal with her mom. At first I try been cool with her mom, I would take care of her while my husband was at work and I was the one in charge so I would send her pics of my dougther and let her know how she was doing. One day she got sick and had to take her back with her mom so the next day I send her a msg asking how my step dougther was doing. So she replays: I understand you r D***** wife but I would like for him to ask not you. And she also text my husband : look I understand she is your wife but just know that I didn't had my douther with her, but with you. Every since then I don't like her for shit and I definitely stop been the nice step mother. I am not a bad mom to her but I sure stop Sending her pics of her, don't reply to her msgs. I hardly have my step dougther with me. Y should I take care of her now since I didn't have her right.. I do not have to struggle and now my step dougther mom is the one struggling, she now has two other little girls and still no father and I know she now needs help and when she try's to send my step dougther over, I say no. Now we have her 4 times a month or less. I love my step dougther and am not a violent parent whatsoever, I love kids. But she did treath me that if I ever hit her doughter or something. Well that's all she said and I dont even do that to my son I try to teach both of them ass much possible to be good kids. And even doe I don't like her mom, I always tell her to behave at her house... Main point. Her mom..