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what do I do.. again.

Posted by on Mar. 30, 2014 at 8:05 PM
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So again with my bf . As I have told you before hes always gone
Doing his other kids. Well during the recent arguments that wr have
Had he has been saying he and his other kids are going to move
Out claiming I treat them bad because im not talking to them . Well I came
Back with .. how can I have a conversation with anyone when everyone
Hides in the bedrooms. I told him our son needs to be supervised
So im not leaving him alone esp since im working all day and want
My time with him. My bf comes in goes right to the bed lays down to watch tv while im playing
With our son. It pisses me off.
He just seems to not want to be around me and I texted him tonight
That if things cant change and ge cant talk to us .. then he needs to move out
So I can be happy with a man who wants to spend time w us.
He thinks im kidding.
So then I found out that bc my sister and mom found out about him
Saying he will move out and is done w me.. they bought me and my son
A plane ticket to fla for easter. My question is .... how do I tell
My bf about that and not get screwed somehow in the long run
For taking my son with me. I mean im new to this and I dont know the
Legal rights of being able to take a child anywhere.
We arent married. I just got pregnant and our child will be 2 in may.
Im scared and I just wish my sister didnt buy the ticket bc I dudnt mind stayig
Home this yr. They did it to be nice but still. Im stuck
by on Mar. 30, 2014 at 8:05 PM
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lucky2Beeme
by Platinum Member on Mar. 30, 2014 at 8:09 PM

 Do NOT say anything until day or two before  and then just go.

frndlyfn
by Emerald Member on Mar. 30, 2014 at 8:29 PM

THere is no custody agreement so just go.   You only need notarized letter if you leave the country that it is ok to travel with child.

deenicole
by on Mar. 31, 2014 at 2:19 AM
So funny thing happened tonight. As I told u about the fla thing. Yeah well apparently my bf got an anomous txt tonight saying .. did u know ur gf id planning on taking ur son to fla.
So obviously big fight happened. But heres the wierd part ..... I never told anyone about it except for right here in this mothers chat room.
Other then saying it here .. noone but me my sister and my parents knew ... soooooo
Someone in here must know us bc that is just alittle too coincidental. I wouldve told u the whole story but .... something is justvnot right about this.
funhappymom
by on Mar. 31, 2014 at 9:34 AM
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It sounds to me like you need to put your son first and do what is best for him.

If you do indeed leave your BF, you should file for legal custody of him so that there are no issues.



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LancesMom
by Ruby Member on Mar. 31, 2014 at 11:56 AM

Hugs! I would sit down and let him know how serious this is for you! Good luck!

Reina13
by on Mar. 31, 2014 at 12:03 PM

As long as there is no custody agreement you should be fine.

But it seems like you really need to sit down with your boyfriend and hash things out. You need to do what is best for you and your son right now. 

Good luck mama. 

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