GUILT! Moving away from my family with my husband and children.
My husband has a job interview in California this afternoon. We live in Ontario, Canada. We have a 6 yr old and a 10 month old. My whole family (parents and two brothers with children) live here. My mom is super sad! Is it wrong for me to move my family away from their extended family? My husband thinks it's no big deal as he moved away from his family 11 yrs ago to come to Canada. He thinks I'm being a baby and that a lot of people travel to different places. Anyone have experience moving away?
My mom says it`s like an arm is being ripped from her body, but that she will be okay. Am I making a big mistake? I feel like a terrible mom and daughter, but if I don`t go, I know my marriage will suffer if not end. I love my husband, but he is a bit selfish and honestly thinks this is a good move. It IS a dream job for him, the weather is SO MUCH nicer and the area has great schools, but is that more important than having cousing and grandparents close by to love my children???
ANY ADVICE WOULD BE GREAT!!!