Need opinions! How long do you date before it becomes a relationship??
I guess there is nothing wrong with it, but I cant help but think that he is not making the commitment so that if/when something happens or changes it will be easier to cut ties.
There is a slightly complicated back story. We both have children. He has been separated from his wife for a bit more than two years and is just finishing up the divorce. In those yrs he fell in love with his best friend of many years. She was killed in a car accident shortly after they began a relationship.
He tells me I am too young for him (Im 25 he's 37) and he will mess us up eventually. The age does not bother me at all. We have a huge group of mutual friends of all ages. Its not any issue really, to me.
So do I just let it ride and see what happens? Pull back and see of I'm worth him coming after?
Oh and yes I have very strong feelings for him... I would be really hurt if we stopped dating. He has said he has strong feeling for me too.