how to do this...(SD doesnt want to see her mom)
How does this work. Sd has not seen BM since the end of Sept. She has no interest in it. SD will be 15 this summer. BM has not tried either. They have spoken once on the phone and gotten into a few texting wars on my phone. No card or call at Christmas. Nothing. So DH got a phone call today that her CS which right is 180 (that she does not pay) will be going up 30.00 AND they will be adding in medical insurance. which is another 100.00. But i told DH since our kids our on it just ask for 15.00 of the medical. So her CS will be going up to a whopping 225ish. The hearing through the AG will be at the end of this month. When BM finds out she is going to loose it. And I believe she is going to try and start forcingg SD with her.Just because she feels she "pays" for her. Which she doesnt. Heres the thing. They are moving to another state in 2 months which will be 22 hours ago. SD has stated she refuses to go. We do not have the money to hire a attorney to get everything in writing. But if BM does try to take SD (even thought its been 7 months) what can we do? Can SD speak to a judge? How much does this cost? Is there a cheap way to do this but still have her interest looked out for?
*I am in Texas.
*DH has had custody since SD was 1.
*BM has never truly been in the picture, but has if that makes since.
*DH erased 13k of bake CS about 4 years ago
*we have done everything to build their relationship but BM keeps ruining it