Ok I have an 8 year old son and we live 6 hours away from his father. We visit during the summer I am the one who always brings my son to see him. He stays with his father for a week. (his father never keeps him longer than that altho he can) We don't go to through court we just do everything by verbal agreement. He pays child support just whenever he has the money.. But anyways my problem is I found out him and his wife are doing meth. I found out through his email bc I was suspicious. I don't want my son down there now. I am going to tell him that when we visit he can come see his son all he wants but he can't stay with him. I am so upset by this bc I know it is going to hurt my son to not have that time with his father but I can't send him off with meth addicts. Me and his father are good friends and I havent been able to say anything to him. He hasn't talked to my son in forever either. I know it has to be the drugs he is a very loving father just doesn't have his priorities straight right now. So, my question is would I be a total wuss if I wrote him an email about it instead of actually talking to him on the phone? UGH!