Our children should always come first, before anything and anyone. I don't care who it is, husbands, family, friends and especially boyfriends. Anyone who doesn't put their child first especially when they need to be protected when they can't protect themselves don't deserve to have children. Anyone can have a baby, but not everyone can be a mother or father. Children are blessings, a gift from God and he entrusts us with them to love them, provide for them, nurture them and always protect them. As mothers it's our duty and responsibility to always protect our children, we live in a sick world, if we don't then who will?